{"id":82,"date":"2023-07-13T12:00:00","date_gmt":"2023-07-13T12:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/skillarbitra.ge\/blog\/?p=82"},"modified":"2023-10-03T18:23:36","modified_gmt":"2023-10-03T18:23:36","slug":"separation-anxiety-and-why-you-never-have-to-go-through-it-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/skillarbitra.ge\/blog\/separation-anxiety-and-why-you-never-have-to-go-through-it-again\/","title":{"rendered":"Separation anxiety, and why you never have to go through it again"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>One of the core childhood memories of my life is my mother leaving home for work, at 5.30 am every day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She found a teaching job in a high school when I was four and my sister was two. Classes began at 10 am. She had to catch a train at 6 am to reach on time for the first class, which meant she left home by 5.30 am to walk to the nearest railway station, mostly because she could not afford a rickshaw.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She commuted for three hours, up and down, every day.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here is what I remember \u2013 every single day, my sister and I would cry in unison at the top of our voices from 5 am until she left the house, because we did not want her to leave us at home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is the painful reality of many working women. Every day, they experience separation from their children, spending many hours in a stressful commute to work, getting hardly any time to spend with the most important people in their lives in their developmental phase, because economic realities are harsh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And that is why I love remote work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am proud that many of my colleagues who lead various teams in LawSikho and SkillArbitrage are women with young children, but don\u2019t have to go through what my family and I experienced in the early 1990s.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For me, it feels like a personal victory when yet another woman conquers the world of remote work.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the core childhood memories of my life is my mother leaving home for work, at 5.30 am every day. She found a teaching job in a high school&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":221,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2,10,3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-82","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-careers","category-remote-work","category-skillarbitrage-featured"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/skillarbitra.ge\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/skillarbitra.ge\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/skillarbitra.ge\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/skillarbitra.ge\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/skillarbitra.ge\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=82"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/skillarbitra.ge\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":84,"href":"https:\/\/skillarbitra.ge\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82\/revisions\/84"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/skillarbitra.ge\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/221"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/skillarbitra.ge\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=82"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/skillarbitra.ge\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=82"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/skillarbitra.ge\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=82"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}